“hold off, Is it a Date?” Podcast Episode 108: 1st Dates | Autostraddle

Recently we’re accompanied by copywriter,

To L and Straight Back

co-host, potential television exec, and my personal roommate
Analyssa Lopez
! We’re speaing frankly about very first times — the who, the just what, the wherein, the why, in addition to exactly how.

Nevertheless before we get into our real dating lives, Christina fanfics a number of well known queer celebrities in a casino game of Love Triangles!


PROGRAM NOTES

+ One gay hug was not enough to get

Nine Perfect Complete Strangers

more than #42 in my own
Nicole Kidman rating
.

+ appreciation Triangle celebrities pulled from Christina’s ever-delightful
No filtration column
.

+ Christina and that I talked a little more about basic dates as soon as we had been on
Poor with Money
.

+ Analyssa’s crush for the few days
glowing on TikTok
.

+ In addition an enjoyable anecdote about Jessica Chastain: I watched the girl do a Q&A after a screening for

Molly’s Game

and she was therefore poised and comfy and phony in an extraordinary good way. I got the thought,

I gamble Jessica Chastain never struggles to send a contact

. And because after that anytime i am writing a business-y mail i recently tell myself,

You’re Jessica Chastain. You Are Jessica Chastain.

Performs pretty well.

+ Here Is
my interview with Isabel Sandoval
and listed below are
her flicks about Criterion Channel
.

+ Did you notice the news? The day development? Christina is
recapping

The Day Show

.



Christina:

Certainly one of my personal very first time movements is ensuring maybe not inquiring any questions. I’ll come back from a night out together and my buddies is like, “just how was just about it? Exactly what do they are doing? Where carry out they stay?” And I’ll be like, “little idea. I obtained nothing.” I’m not sure what I converse in regards to on times, but it’s never ever any pertinent info that anybody may wish to notice on a follow up, because i am constantly similar, ok last one, I’m certain they’ve got a position. I’m not sure what it is.


Theme track performs


Drew:

Hi, I Am Drew.


Christina:

I’m Christina.


Drew:

And welcome to,

Wait, So Is This a Date?


Christina:


Wait, Is It a Date?

is an Autostraddle podcast specialized in responding to this outdated question: delay, is this a romantic date?


Drew:

Each and every day we have increasingly more quality and discover more and just how to communicate with the other person and our area.


Christina:

Wow. Which was very gorgeous and touching.


Drew:

Thanks A Lot.


Christina:

And in addition so lightly robot in a way that I really appreciated.


Drew:

Great. Going for like queer cult. Yeah.


Christina:

Yeah. Okay. As you’ve watched, just how much? You completed

Nine Great Strangers

yesterday?


Drew:

I did so. We watched every thing in one single day. Really, and the finally episode was the morning after, while I created my personal brand-new shelf. It had been a proper winning… which is precisely how much focus should always be provided to that television plan.


Christina:

And that means you’re not coming at us from a proper room, since you had been in a cult.


Drew:

Yeah, that has been a few days ago. It’s not sufficient to essentially have messed with me too much. You know very well what? Often poor television is necessary, specially when it movie stars most movie stars. Oh, we must explore exactly who we are.


Christina:

Oh yeah. Appropriate.


Drew:

We normally accomplish that.


Christina:

Here our company is speaing frankly about

Nine Perfect Visitors,

a TV show nobody cares about.


Drew:

Okay, well i’m Drew Gregory. I am an author for Autostraddle. I am a filmmaker, I am a trans individual, I’m a lesbian individual. Yeah. And I also carry out love Nicole Kidman.


Christina:

Amazing work. I Am Christina Tucker. Additionally a writer for Autostraddle, i will be a lesbian person but also happy that

The Day Program

has returned in my own existence because it’s really already been, well, ruining it, however in an effective way. We like terrible tv!


Drew:

Yeah. Which is great terrible tv. That is exemplary. Yeah.


Christina:

Chef’s hug. Cook’s kiss.


Drew:

Really, should we get into all of our online game?


Christina:

I’m very excited to figure out, what is from your small mind nowadays?


Drew:

Okay.


Christina:

Just what horrors have you created?


Drew:

And this video game is named admiration Triangles.


Christina:

Oh boy.


Drew:

And you’ll see that We have a hat right here. Okay?


Christina:

Okay.


Drew:

And within the hat are items of paper which have 10 reoccurring people that show up on Christina’s No filtration column, which can be centered on celebrity news and Instagram articles. Right after which there is your name and my title. And I also’m gonna choose three names out of this hat, and you’re likely to put-on the brilliant Christina fanfic cap, and merely tell me precisely what the really love triangle could be between those three people.


Christina:

Wow. Okay. I will take a sip of Diet Coke and I also’m probably going to be prepared because of this.


Drew:

Yeah. Exactly what the vibrant was. Okay. And That Means You see—


Christina:

Everyone loves that you put circumstances in a hat. It really is so actual.


Drew:

Yeah. Everyone loves it. I mean, it is a podcast, thus no person can really trust, but We promise that, one, I am not appearing. Two, its all random. Okay. Ready?


Christina:

Mm-hmm (affirmative).


Drew:

Okay. And so the first-name is Tessa Thompson.


Christina:

Iconic.


Drew:

Hayley Kiyoko.


Christina:

Mm.


Drew:

And Rosie O’Donnell.


Christina:

Now this really is fascinating, because just what bang are the ones three men and women doing with each other? My personal gut is saying that Tessa and Rosie are likely will be our very own main primary triangle minutes right here, because i’m like this’s really the only probable strategy to address this fucking trolley ass issue of a love triangle that you’ve given myself. And so I feel they, I’m not sure, came across at a celebration, Tessa had been feeling untamed. She was actually like, “its Rosie O’Donnell. I’ll get together with Rosie O’Donnell because exactly why the hell not?” That may seem like her fuel.


Drew:

Completely.


Christina:

I really do imagine Hayley was entered into this triangle because perhaps she actually is had a crush on Tessa for a while in addition they came across at some purpose. And I also don’t think Tessa is within in any manner, like, “oh, I can’t date their.” she is the same as, “yeah, we can vibe, we can hang.” But i believe Hayley’s a little hung up on like, “wait, you installed with Rosie O’Donnell, the Rosie O’Donnell? How performed that take place?”


Drew:

Mm-hmm (affirmative).


Christina:

I really don’t consider there’s any genuine stress within this triangle. I do believe there was a little insecurity and a few issue.


Drew:

I see.


Christina:

I don’t know exactly how we’re resolving it because once more, I just feel like Tessa just absolutely vibes away. She is going to wind up as, i got eventually to get hang out with Rita Ora and Tayo Otiti sooner or later, therefore capture you lates. But i actually do believe, I’m not sure, perhaps towards the end it stops with Hayley and Rosie connecting at some sort of brunch.


Drew:

Oh, I Enjoy that.


Christina:

Like, yeah, man. This is certainly generational lesbians. This is certainly like, we are moving the burn. I think which can be really breathtaking, really.


Drew:

That is beautiful.


Christina:

That will be in addition very disorderly.


Drew:

Yeah. Why don’t we move on to the next arbitrary trio.


Christina:

Oh guy.


Drew:

Okay. So it is Niecy Nash.


Christina:

Waiting around for that one.


Drew:

Hunter Schafer.


Christina:

Uh-huh (affirmative).


Drew:

And Holland Taylor.


Christina:

Well, today.


Drew:

Wow.


Christina:

Huh. All over again you may have positioned me personally in a challenging circumstance. Now, I mean, I guess its like, we will need to focus on Holland and Niecy. I’m not sure what’s taking place here. Both are located in delighted connections.


Drew:

Yeah.


Christina:

I don’t know if anyone knows that Niecy Nash is totally obsessed with the woman spouse, but she is, and that I’m sure she is posted no less than six times now about that reality.


Drew:

Seem, often like triangles tend to be unrequited.


Christina:

I think it is going to need to be, but i’m adore it’s unrequited in every drilling course. What exactly is Hunter Schafer doing here? Hunter Schafer is similar to a dang kid only vibing.


Drew:

Early twenties. Simply want to simplify.


Christina:

I said everything I mentioned. That is the exact same age. Jenna from

Work,

it is the same picture. Come-on. This package, i would need to toss the soft towel in regarding. We genuinely don’t understand.


Drew:

Okay. We could additionally put the labels in. Hold off, allow me to put Hunter Schafer in.


Christina:

Yeah.


Drew:

And In Addition We going to carry out—


Christina:

Draw me personally something else entirely. I’m able to generate something happen with Niecy and Holland. I’m not sure just what, it is rather remarkable.


Drew:

Oh. Okay. This is certainly an extremely interesting trio. Gillian Anderson.


Christina:

Oh. today, Gillian, famously semi recently single, features your pet dog, additionally real. She’s no longer matchmaking the guy from

The Crown

that made her feel Margaret Thatcher, that I think is probably for optimum. Now, hmm. See, personally i think like another person’s simply planning to have to have emotions for Niecy during the place because she actually is just undertaking her thing.


Drew:

That is a very great point. That is outstanding point.


Christina:

She’s merely performing the woman thing. In my opinion Holland and Sarah, I don’t know, they’re able to get freaky. There may be possibly, possibly they ask Gillian over for beverages. Possibly circumstances get slightly spicy. Who could say? Perhaps Niecy has Jessica. Perhaps Jessica simply leaves early. Maybe absolutely feelings on all sides. Once again, I’m not sure really what exactly is happening because i cannot imagine most of these people in equivalent room with each other. It really is fascinating to give some thought to, for me. I’ll spend a lot period thinking about it later on. Now, however?


Drew:

Yeah. Could seriously end up being an orgy minute using associates included, like celebrate Gillian Anderson getting unmarried.


Christina:

In my opinion that might be it. I do believe they might have become with each other and already been like, let us get this recognized bisexual into some puss. I do believe that may be amazing.


Drew:

Wow. What an amazing fivesome that could be. Okay. Shifting.


Christina:

In addition, is it possible to just ask one question concerning hat? Can it be like a news child limit?


Drew:

It is. There isn’t like a… It’s a fairly shallow cap, but There isn’t a lot of hats. So it is—


Christina:

I am pleased one that you really have is actually a newsboy cap.


Drew:

Its slightly newsboy limit. Yeah. I believe We pull it off sometimes.


Christina:

You have the tresses for it. It’s my opinion it.


Drew:

Thanks A Lot.


Christina:

Mm-hmm (affirmative).


Drew:

Okay. Demi Lovato.


Christina:

Incredible.


Drew:

Christina Tucker. And Cara Delevingne.


Christina:

Interesting. Today this is exactly fascinating. Because operating me into here’s not at all something i carry out. I Do Not often create audience fic because that’s—


Drew:

I am aware.


Christina:

Awkward.


Drew:

Well let us embarrass you.


Christina:

Let us embarrass me personally. So Cara’s had some kind of collecting, correct, at her bonkers house or apartment with the snatch canal causing all of the Leo statues within the backyard, that is what’s going on. I believe Demi provides decided that they can go to, but is maybe however a little stressed about going to a celebration during that lunatic lesbian’s home because famously, material problems tend to be hard. An event at Cara’s property is going to get odd quickly. There is a whole place which is merely a ball gap. I do not determine what’s taking place there. And I famously don’t love events or people. Therefore I feel just like possibly Demi and I also have actually linked in some sort of silent individuals region. My gut feels as though Cara only desires begin some crap and simply attempts to enter between that somehow, just for the crisis sake from it all. Brings the woman sex counter electricity to the due to the fact, why not trigger disorder, if you possibly could? In addition a Leo, she is going to resemble, hello, how come the eye not on me personally?


Drew:

So that the question that We have is Cara breaking up your own and Demi’s gorgeous by going for you or opting for Demi? Which of you strays?


Christina:

And that’s what I cannot… Hmm. Hmm. My instinct feels like i must state Demi, but that is because Really don’t feel just like i might do that. And I feel kind of bad saying that Demi would do that, again, individuals i actually do maybe not know and certainly will most likely can’t say for sure. But maybe because I’m not carrying out that.


Drew:

Yeah. But personally i think as you’re loyal from inactivity. So I do not know if you have to feel poor about any of it.


Christina:

Absolutely. That’s an infamous motto, be sluggish since it is easy.


Drew:

Yeah.


Christina:

Hello.


Drew:

Okay.


Christina:

Yeah. And I also additionally think Cara would deplete me personally.


Drew:

Yeah. That is probably genuine. I’d like to see it however.


Christina:

Oh sure. I possibly could end up being tired for like a weekend. I really could be worn out for like a weekend or two.


Drew:

Okay. This is actually the last one. Really Kiki Palmer.


Christina:

Fun.


Drew:

Hunter Schafer, who was simply put in the hat considering age differences. And myself. Wow. I like that I’m part of this. What? Delighted birthday if you ask me.


Christina:

Okay. Thus Drew is in really love with both Kiki Palmer and Hunter Schafer. That is where we’re starting.


Drew:

However.


Christina:

I do not actually know where we are finishing from there because that only seems like what is going to take place. See, Kiki provides this, the things I love about Kiki Palmer, one of the many situations i enjoy about Kiki Palmer, is that she is 27 yrs . old possesses the power of a 45 year old dark girl at all times of the day. In my opinion it is incredible to own this type of big auntie power at the woman early age. And I simply feel just like in a love triangle situation, she’d resemble, “Oh no, i am a young child of Jesus. I eventually got to get. This is not for my situation. Y’all do what you need to do, but Im ready with this particular.” So perhaps you and Kiki have actually connected in earlier times now Hunter has entered the world and Hunter’s similar, Ooh, i acquired a crush about individual. And maybe Kiki is just like, yeah, I’m allowing it to go.


Drew:

Hold off, Hunter has a crush on me? Not Kiki?


Christina:

Needless to say.


Drew:

Oh, thank-you. Wow.


Christina:

Seriously.


Drew:

Wow. Exactly what a global, where I’m hooking up with Kiki Palmer. Following that has to finish because I begin matchmaking Hunter Schafer.


Christina:

After all what some sort of for which I’m also sluggish to cheat on Demi Lovato. There are plenty of globes that peopleare going through.


Drew:

Wow.


Christina:

Yeah. But i do believe you guys seriously vibe, but In my opinion it comes to an end because Hunter is like, mm, i wish to do a lot more using my existence. I do want to move out truth be told there and discover some crap. She actually is youthful.


Drew:

What i’m saying is, I know. That’s good.


Christina:

I’m sure. And Kiki’s want, if anyone desires come over on Sunday for brunch, you’re pleasant.


Drew:

Oh, so Kiki and that I remain friends?


Christina:

In my opinion everybody continues to be buddies inside situation.


Drew:

Oh, which is wonderful. That’s nice. Okay, I Love that


Christina:

I do not think there is actual damage feelings. I think everyone’s like, yeah, development. It needs to take place.


Drew:

Yeah. That’s great. I enjoy this. Really, this was a pleasure. Thank-you for using myself.


Christina:

Thank you so much for, I’m phoning this The Newsboy cover video game.


Drew:

Great. Go over Appreciate Triangles. Its today a Newsboy Cover.


Christina:

Yeah. No, that has been really enjoyable.


Drew:

I’m so grateful. Well, i believe it’s the perfect time that individuals enter our main topic on the week with your very unique guest. Very our subject recently is first times, and, very special visitor, want to introduce your self?


Analyssa:

I do. Thank you so much for inquiring. I am Analyssa and I am the co-host of Autostraddle’s

To L and Right Back

podcast with Drew in accordance with Riese. When Drew and Christina performed their unique intro, I got to bite my language never to say, “I’m Analyssa!” Which can be usually my personal intro.


Christina:

You did a great job, and I also thank-you’re honored to know it, undoubtedly.


Analyssa:

Yeah. We help co-host the

To L and Right Back

podcast, i have authored two things for Autostraddle. I work at a television studio, so the Love Triangles online game felt really specifically intended for my existence also. Long time listener, first time person.


Christina:

Incredible.


Analyssa:

Et cetera, etc. Hello everybody.


Drew:

But also, my personal roommate. Therefore really, we’re recording this independently for audio reasons, but the audience is in rooms with a wall between you.


Christina:

This really is stunning stuff. And I like this synergy, this Autostraddle mix marketing jargon.


Analyssa:

It’s slightly like, did I get throughout the pod caused by nepotism? Like types of.


Christina:

Yes. However in equity for you, our visitors have obtained on pod at this point as a result of nepotism. So?


Drew:

Ana, can I want to know something openly about this podcast? When I reference the wall among the spaces. I can not make use of my vibrator while people are residence, correct? All of our wall space are way too thin. Or perhaps you have perhaps not heard? Maybe you’ve maybe not heard it?


Analyssa:

I’ve heard one gender sound from your room.


Drew:

Okay. As soon as isn’t bad.


Christina:

Well, now You will find some follow up questions. One solitary gender noise? Or was it a continued rumble of a vibrator?


Analyssa:

No, i recently imply one example.


Christina:

Gotcha.


Drew:

Okay. I’m able to accept that.


Analyssa:

And we also can talk about that off-line because I think I’m sure when it was, if you convey more concerns we can talk.


Drew:

Cool.


Christina:

I’d love to be involved.


Drew:

Yeah. Christina, possible arrive.


Christina:

Also happy to post anyone some form of white sound device, i do believe could also do miracles.


Drew:

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